Finally we have booked the air tix to bangkok. so its confirmed that we are flying off from 30-2nd sept. im so looking forward to that. This time we are flying with airasia. Hopefully it'll be a gd experience. anyways there's a hiccup in our booking of hotel. the departure time is at 10.55am on tues and we will arrive back in singapore on 2nd sept 8.05pm. anyone wanna send us and pick us up too?hehz
i've booked the twin towers bangkok hotel which is a 4star hotel on sat. i've submitted everything nicely and i had clicked on the submit button. yea everything went smoothly till the hotel replied back that they were fully booked. argh...i was aghast. during the confirmation process, they kinda deducted money from my bank account via debit card. the ledger's balance still remains untouched BUT the available balance shows that the hotel has actually reserved the accommodation's cost. till now and i mean NOW, they haven debit/credit(i sux at principles of accounts) the money back into my account. As of now, im still waiting for the money. yesterday i emailed the agency to whoever in charged and i wrote, "
Hi there, Since it is fully-booked, when do i get my refunds of USD87? Does it take very long for the process of refunding? Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks" and here's what they replied with a typo error too, "
Answer :We do apologized for nay delay. Please contact with our accounting department at tel no. +66 xx xxx 902. " i was kinda shocked at this reply. not only do i have to make a long way to get my money back but also it was very unprofessional of them to be directing me to a telephone number? shudnt they be like addressing consumer's interest in the most respectable and proficient manner? now im keeping my fingers crossed so that i can get my money back a.s.a.p. what a terrible experience. anyway shi ming's auntie's frend who's working in the hotel industry in bangkok is helping me to collect my money back. its worth around SGD150. tat's quite alot of money to me man...
and at work today, shi ming and me were discussing the hotel stay. we decided to ask his auntie's frend to book a room at Eastin Hotel which is a 3-star hotel. and its more expensive than this 4-star hotel. hopefully it goes smoothly. PLZ?
seriously i dun understand BGR now. i've been thru some but now i totally dun get it. i dunno how to put it across but i shall try my very best now. shi ming and his gf has been at it for almost two years. problems started to arise when they were just been together for about 5-8 months that time if i can remember properly. i was being the bad and truthful guy backed then and told him to breakup with her just in case he loved her too deeply and the mention of breakup will certainly slapped him hard in the face. its reality or speculation from me. even his frend jojo, and mine weili(we were slacking at westmall at that time studying) advised him to breakup and leave the girl. i knew his character kinda well and it was obvious that he wasnt gonna break and he's going to go thru it and see if there's any improvement. well there were still ups and downs during that period till now. this upcoming monday will be their 2-yrs anniversary. he was planning to celebrate it at a nice and cosy but expensive restaurant(gosh) but she told him maybe she's cudnt make it or they are not going to celebrate it. he's been telling me that he's giving in alot to her and its like she's taking alot but not giving back too. relationships is like giving and taking..but i personally feel that by giving too much is kinda imbalanced. for instance, in my past relationship, a girl which i went on for almost two yrs, i felt that i gaf her alot. it maybe spoilt her and i was taken for granted. taken for granted may lead to breakups and the girl leaving u for another one. i dunno how accurate is that. well shi ming too gaf in alot to her. imagine this, a true example, after a long day's work of physically challenging natured job, he went on to meet her and try to please her in every way he can. instead she doesnt gif a damn about it and kinda demand him to be there when she asked for him. and when she doesnt even wanna meet him or wat, she'll just gif him some lame excuses or leave him cold. how in the world can a girl like her treat him liddat? doesnt she tink of his feelings or show him any respect. i truly felt sympathy for him but at the same time, if he had taken my advise earlier on, maybe he cud have been with a better girl now. eversince she started working, there has been endless problems. the same also goes for my another pal. i shall not mention his name here though. his gf is older than him and is working whereby he's waiting to go ns. his gf was facing stress at work and has little time to spend with him. they are now working at different locations but its quite near to each other's premises. sometimes they will just haf luncho together and he'll wait for her to end work and go home or spend some time together. well i dunno if she's making use of him or wat but i hope its all mutual love. speaking of MCP - male chauvinist pigs(how do i spell it?) defintely 3 of us do not belong to that category. we are gentlemen. and that is so right. just now at work, shi ming told me that he remembered my words that day at westmall and he held those words in high regards now. but that doesnt mean he wanna a breakup. i suggested that he shud talk to her about the problems they have and c if they can resolve it amicably. my heart goes out to him.
speaking of all these, its time to write something about me too.ahakz. 3 yrs of singlehood and nothing much looks promising now. just by looking at these problems my frendz had, its too demoralising to be tinking of going into one. maybe im a little bit contradictive at times but it just cant be helped. i've lost that spark to go all the way just to court girls. i realise that i normally stop when its getting too sianz for me. the point whereby u will just chat and talk about the same things and stuffs. its too boring for me. i need someone who can always haf this intellectual talk with me. someone to challenge me. someone who can keep me on my toes. someone who takes intiative. im still taking my time slowly...i dunno how it feels to be in loved again and im getting more and more bochap now. rightfully now i can declare that im a failure in BGR? ahakz...that's so demoralising. and as for advising frendz when they haf BGR issues, i just listen and listen and then i gif them my self opinion as well as some bochapness in replies with regards to the issues. well i dun really gif them bochap answers but i tot alot for both sides and gaf the answer kinda reasonably and somberly as i can.
its the last week of work and i dun even feel abit of monday blues today. i was so high-spirited into coming work today and was all smiles. i knew i gotta enjoy this week and im off to bkk...ahakz...the last hurdle to complete...way to go!
